EMOTIONS AND SENSATIONS IN PRACTICE
*Check out Active Feeling on the process page. Also review Accept This/Love That.
*If you have repetitive worries--write them down. After practice you can take action on experiencing the underlying feelings that are firing up your worries.
*If fear comes up--observe it, yet don't identify with it. Fear can also be fully felt and cleared with a clearing process.
*Positive feelings, in practice, lead to clinging. Negative feelings lead to aversion. When we become mindful of feelings we can observe them with detachment.
*Emotions often emerge in practice. Allow them to come and go. They spring from our thoughts and imaginings.
*Noticing and acknowledging our emotions is progress toward becoming responsibile for them. Anger, anxiety, calm, depression, happiness, and joy all come from our evaluations about events, others, ourselves, and things.
*If anxious or restless, count breaths and breathe deeply from your belly for a few minutes before you return your attention to your practice. Later you can full experience these feelings so you can integrate them.
*Worry agitates the mind and makes attention difficult. Worry asks: what if? In asking "what if", worry focuses on a negative outcome.
The small self gains a negative label. If worry appears, ask yourself what is the worst that can happen and can you cope with it? Sit with worry and gently bring your attention back to your breath or activity.
Later you can give its underlying anxiety your full attention. If it continues to intrude then by all means make its fueling anxiety the focus of your zen/mindfulness.
*Be aware of "I can't stand-itis." You can stand feelings and difficult practice. Ask yourself if you could stand it for a billion dollars, nonconceptual experience, "true love", or some other highly valued reward. If you can stand this situation for a any of these highly valued awards, then we can assume you can stand it period. Standing the difficult builds frustration tolerance.
*Anger is agitating in practice. It comes from believing others or thye world should do something or should not do something. Better to prefer or want, rather than to demand. We forget in anger the other person or the world is multi-faceted and has many positive, neutral, and negative qualities. If angry in practice, jot down what you find anger provoking, then return your attention to your breath or activity. The anger can be handled after practice.
*Guilt is breaking an ironclad should or must law. Further, we down ourselves with a negative label. Better we return our shoulds and musts into preferences and wants and note we are fallible, yet multi-faceted persons with many positive, neutral, and negative qualities.
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BLOCKS TO PRACTICE
*Let go of demanding anything dramatic happening.
*Each distraction can be labeled distraction before you return your attention to your breathing.
*Let go of seeking nonconceptual experience. Just sit and breathe.
*Be aware of any infatuation you have with zen/mindfulness. This period of infatuation is usually short-lived. Soon we realize practice takes setting time aside and doing.
*When feelings of achievment subside along with your thoughts of nonconceptual experience, then you will resume "just sitting".
*Over focusing on pain and discomfort can be a ploy our mind uses to protect old habits. If you experience tension and anxiety, your pain and discomfort might increase. You can stand it. Fuse with the pain and it will gradually transform.
*Let go of being attached to sitting practice. Work with earing, walking etc.
*Boredom may be produced by expecting excitement or that something "big" should happen. Boredom is a belief we've added to our experience. It's best to sit through boredom. You learn directly that you can stay with it. Boredom in sitting is neither good or bad. You don't have to do anything or expect anything. You breathe and you are there.
*Some of the most common blocks to practice are: (1) Clinging to sensations and feelings. (2) Anger. (3) Low tolerance for pain and frustration. (4) Restlessness. (5) Lack of belief in the process and outcome. (6) Low tolerance for unnaturalness. (7) Fear of experiencing unconscious images and thoughts. (8) Fear of change and having new challenges. (9) Demand for instant success. (10) Fear of losing emotions. (11) Fear of losing control. (12) Fear of remaining in some state forever. (13)Demand our sitting goes perfectly. (14)Fear of failure. (15)Concern over our changing relationships with others. (16) Having too many thoings to do. (17) Waiting for inspiration or the right mood to sit. (18)Forgetting to sit. (19) Being too upset to sit.
*When drowsy or tired, pay attention to the sleepiness, yet don't identify with it. You may want to alter your posture. If you're really tired you might want to get up and take a brisk walk.
*When restless you can make restlessness the object of your awareness. Sit and observe restlessness. Restlessness comes and goes. You can return your awareneness to your breath. Sitting very still in a straight posture also can overcome restlessness.
*If you have doubt--pay attention to it. Acknowledge it without indentifying with it.
*Let go of striving after calm, love, serentity, power, or wholness in your sitting. Striving after anything brings waves of thought.
*Inner calm is anatural byproduct of nonstriving consciousness.
*An object to be abandoned is no different than its antidote. Watch out for desire and aversion, subject and object.
*Illusions come when our focus is developed to a certain point. Dreamlike in content. Illusions are not from nonconceptual experience. Whether positive or negative, let illusions go by and return to your breathing.
*When caught up in a fantasy, it can completely occupy you. When it weakens, you will notice your mind has strayed before you return your attention to your breath. In fantasies we plan and tell stories. Daydreaming and planning have a place in life, but they are not for practice.
*Questioning your ability to practice is often a way our minds balk at change. Watch out for too much questioning and doubting. Worry and concern during practice produces plenty of thought. Return to your breath. Just sit and breathe.
*Obstacles and frustrations can help you learn correct practice.
*Refrain from using intoxicants because they create tiredness and a drifting focus.
*Watch out for "it doesn't feel right for me" because most most new experiences will not feel right at first.
*Avoid any competition in practice. You will be focused on the future and leave the present.
* You will hear traffic, insects, running water, or a ticking clock. Sudden sounds like breaks squeeling, motorcycles, and roaring jets can be
distracting. Stay away from human voices (in person or on tv or radio). Later when you have developed your practice, noise will not disturb you.
*We have a lifetime of mental conditioning to overcome and our natural discomfort with some changes. Let go of putting yourself down. Work on developing your practice. Focus on mistakes and how they can be corrected. Let go of focusing on yourself for human errors.
*Breath counting and attending to breath better be done fully and with commitment.
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