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The Victim
THE VICTIM: This personality cluster focuses on perceiving ourself as a victim and blaming others for our circumstances.
*Others are responsible for how I feel.
*Easy for you say--but I can't let go of this.
*People take advantage of my goodness.
*It's horrible what happens to me.
*People don't care anything about me. They're takers.
*I can't believe they never call me anymore--those ingrates. After all I've done for them.
*Even though what happened was 16 years ago, it's as fresh as today. The bastards.
*If it wasn't for others I'd be happy.
*I am a victim.
*People use me and take advantage of me.
*My life's destroyed because of them.
*God must hate me.
*My life is essentially over. What happened should've never happened.
*If it wasn't for them I might be somebody.
*I truly believe in fate. It's utterly destroyed my life.
*What I have to endure is totally unfair.
*I deserve better than this, but it'll never happen!
*I could rot for all they care.
*I fail to see any humor in this. Only a sick and insensitive mind would think this was funny.
*All they do is think about is me, me, me. Well how about me?
*Things are getting lousier--it's not right.
*What can I do? Be serious.
*Nobody wants to be with me. They're selfish.
*I try not to hate, but given my position who could help it?
Take care, Steve