Undesirable

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Undesirable

UNDESIRABLE: This cluster points to being unwanted due to physical appearance or lack of social skills. Beliefs are:

*I'm fat.
*I'm skinny.
*I'm ugly.
*I'm boring.
*My conversation is dull.
*People won't hang out with me because of my race, poor income, low status, education.
*I can't seem to say the right things--I feel so out of it.
*Others don't want me in their circles.
*I feel extremely self-conscious around others.
*I start talking and people just walk away.
*Others naturally judge me and turn off.
*I lack what it takes to be desirable.
*When I open my mouth people tune out.
*I can sense people backing off.