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Negativity


NEGATIVITY: This cluster provides us with a sense of pessimism and a focus on life's negative aspects. Negativity filters out the positive or what might work and instead notices what could go wrong. People who suffer from negativity tend toward complaining, indecision, worry, and the failure to understake new directions. Beliefs are:

*Why bother--it will never work.
*Things could go wrong.
*It didn't work before--why should it work now?
*Everything I do turns out wrong--why try?
*Why take a chance--it won't work anyway.
*If I try I'll be trapped forever.
*Look at what I'll lose--why risk it?
*Nothing I ever do amounts to anything.
*Things can only get worse.
*If it 's going well now you get be assured it will fall apart later.
*In my gut I know I will fail.
*I've got bad luck.
*Look at all the bad things that could happen if I do that.
*It may work for them, but it will never work for me.
*I'm born to lose--I always have and I always will.
*I lack what it takes to make things work.
*It's to hard to even try.
*Nothing will ever help me--I'm marked goods.
*I don't have the energy to mess up again.
*My situation is hopeless.
*I'm different from others--it won't work for me.
*Cures are beyond me--I really feel that.
*Making changes is beyond my control.

Take care, Steve Mensing