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Jealousy
The Jealousy Personality Cluster is dedicated to those who saw "Fatal Attraction" as a love story.
JEALOUSY PERSONALITY CLUSTER
Jealousy is a common human problem where someone rates themselves poorly and believes their partner is untrustworthy and will leave them for another. Typical Jealousy Personality Cluster beliefs are:
*I'm unnattractive and unappealing.
*My partner will leave me.
*My partner is not to be trusted.
*Other persons cause how I feel.
*I have a right to control my partner.
*It seems as if my partner has already left me.
*No one could possibly love me if they knew the real me.
*They have no right to talk others of the opposite sex.
*I know my partner is eyeing attractive people.
*I can't take my attention off my partner.
*I have every right to be furious at them.
*If you're going with me you must account for where you've been at all times.
*Once a cheat, always a cheat.
*My partner is responsible for how I feel.
*My partner is a liar, cheat, and never can be trusted.
*All men/all women are cheats.
*I think about my partner and what they're doing continuously.
*I have a right to tell him/her what to do and who they can talk with.
*I'm unloveable.
*I always lose whatever I love.
*Sooner or later they'll leave me for someone else.
*I feel incomplete unless my partner is close by.
*My rage and anger with my partner is entirely justified.
*Partners should never be shared.
*He/she is mine.
*Socializing with others of the opposite sex is outside the boundaries of our relationship.
*If you really loved me, you would only be with me.
*I expect my partner to stray. I have to watch them.
*It's okay to park outside their house and check up.
*Losing my partner would be the end of the world.
Take care, Steve