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Inferiority Cluster


INFERIORITY: This cluster leaves us with the feeling we are defective, inferior, no good, and undesirable. With this cluster we are sensitive to criticism and rejection and are shamed by our appearance and flaws. Beliefs are:

*Who would love me or like me if they noticed my flaws?
*I've got lots wrong with me.
*How could anyone love or like me?
*They would leave if they knew the real me.
*I'm unsuitiable and unloveable.
*Nothing I can do will help me gain important others love and respect.
*I'm unloveable.
*I'm drawn to others who are critical of me or reject me.
*I feel inadequate and lacking.
*I've got to hide myself from people who get close to me.
*I'm afraid if others get close to me and see the real me.
*I feel like a fake when others seem to like me.
*My appearance, intelligence, income, opinions, and sexuality are shameful