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Abuse
Here is the Personality Cluster: Abuse/Expectation of Bad Treatment: This cluster provides a sense that others will abuse, cheat, decieve, humiliate, hurt, or take advantage of us. Beliefs are:
* I must be totally guarded around others.
* People will use me.
* People only act nice when they want something.
* Soon someone will betray me.
* People will emotionally, physically, or sexually abuse me.
* I must be vigilant for other people's tricks.
* People close to me will hurt me.
* I have to test others because they are untrustworthy.
* People only think about themselves.
* I'd be a fool to trust someone.
* Most people are liars and cheats.
* I do it to them before they do it to me.
* Take control or be controlled.
* I'm angry about how others have used me.
* Something's wrong with me if I get treated this way.
* It's my fault I've been abused or tricked.